When members go to their preferred gym or other fitness facility to workout, they usually have the choice to work out by themselves, with a trainer, or in a group/class setting. When you walk into a gym, you will notice that everyone is focused on their workout and in their own world. Some have headphones on, others may be sitting in a lounge area taking a break, and many others talking to each other or standing in a group while they workout.
Despite all of this socialization, it should go without saying that there are a lot of unwritten rules regarding talking to others while they are exercising, as the gym is often a place for “Me” time. Many people come to the gym to get their daily exercises in without distraction and then leave. While you must be respectful and be able to tell when someone doesn’t want to talk, remember that it is okay to go to the gym to socialize. Just be sure to socialize appropriately.
Inviting a friend to go to the gym with you can provide many benefits for the both of you and still allow you to have some socialization. By going with someone you know, you can rest assur
ed that you can have welcomed small-talk in-between workout sets.
Your friends know you the best, so they will understand if you want to talk about how you just performed or during a quick water break. As an added bonus, your workout buddy may also motivate you to work out harder and push you when you are not feeling a particular exercise.
When talking to each other, remember to do so quietly!
Group exercise classes will guarantee you get your socializing done in an effective way at the gym. Group classes and their instructors always have their own unique vibe to get members excited about being at the gym, and many instructors encourage members to get to know each other.
While you may not be talking to the people in the class as you work out, being in the same room and is still a great way to effectively socialize. Plus, it is always courteous to the instructor to not casually talk one-on-one while they are teaching to avoid distractions.
In many fitness facilities there is even more do to in-between workouts. Nowadays it is getting more common to see cafés and lounge areas in the gym where people can hangout before or after a workout.
If your gym or club offers amenities like a café, a juice or smoothie bar or just a lounge with a few comfy couches and some tables and chairs, you can definitely get a chance to interact with other members this way. Taking a few minutes out of your visit to go to the designated lounging area is probably one of the best ways to meet new people and not interrupt anyone’s workout. Waiting to talk to someone when neither of you is exercising is for the best. Trying to talk to someone while they are exercising can be distracting, and even dangerous—especially if they are trying to concentrate on exercises like weights.
While many agree that the gym is not the place to have a social hour, socializing at the gym can provide a variety of benefits. For example, more motivation to complete a workout is most a huge benefit, but interacting with other members can help increase competitiveness, encourage you to workout longer, and lead to better mental health. You could even meet a new workout partner!